Six Simple Ways to Become More Attractive

From an evolutionary perspective, humans are often drawn to markers associated with health and fertility—features like facial symmetry, bright eyes, full lips, and pronounced cheekbones. But beyond genetics, there are other signals that strongly influence attraction.

Multiple studies suggest that six traits, in particular, can raise your perceived attractiveness.

1) Sport and physical activity

Showing your athletic side is a common strategy men and women use to appear more attractive. Regular exercise can also communicate vitality, confidence, and good self-care—traits often linked with long-term partner preference.

2) Surround yourself with friends

People often seem more attractive in a group than alone—popular culture calls this the “cheerleader effect.” Psychologists suggest the brain forms a quick average impression of a group; when someone is isolated, small imperfections stand out more.

3) Smile often

A broad smile signals warmth, openness, and health. Teeth also matter socially; a clean, cared-for smile can quietly increase perceived attractiveness.

4) Wear red

Red is often associated with passion and romantic interest. Experiments have found that the same person can be rated as more attractive when wearing red compared with other colors.

5) Use your most appealing voice

How we speak affects attraction. A lighter voice in women is sometimes associated with youthfulness; a deeper voice in men is often associated with confidence. Beyond pitch, clarity and calm pacing matter too.

6) Be funny

Humor is consistently valued. Many women report that a man who can make them laugh is highly attractive; many men appreciate a partner who laughs at their jokes. A good sense of humor signals intelligence, social ease, and emotional resilience.